by Guisela Pinto Caballero
How can you TRUST when it doesn’t feel GOOD or Right to make certain decisions? How can you TRUST the decisions you are making when you FEEL SCARED, UNCERTAIN, and maybe even SICK to your stomach? It doesn’t make sense! How can I be making The RIGHT DECISION if it FEELS so WRONG??
TRUSTING YOURSELF! THAT IS HOW!
As women entrepreneurs, we hold ourselves to a certain standard. It is important to be certain and decisive in almost all aspects of our lives, including our personal lives. We have to Keep It Together, right? YES! But since life is not predictable and we don’t necessarily know what tomorrow holds, we are left trusting ourselves for TODAY. Trusting that we are making good decisions for our business, for our clients, and for our families. After all, we don’t operate in a vacuum. All of who we are touches all aspects of our lives. Yet another good reason to try to Keep it Together.
While we are doing the work we love and keeping it together, the INEVITABLE happens, sooner or later. We may begin to notice or become more aware of people or things in our lives that aren’t serving us and consequently we are faced with making difficult decisions.
It would not be DIFFICULT if it were not IMPORTANT!
As entrepreneurs, our time is very important and so is our energy. After all, we need to be present to the challenges and opportunities of running our own business. Likewise, we need to know how to respond when the challenges become too difficult to manage and at the same time continue to keep the opportunities in our field of vision.
It is often difficult to make a decision that may cause others to judge you. It is difficult when you have an emotional attachment to an idea, person, or thing in your business that has become draining or is not helping you to serve your clients. It is difficult when you’ve invested time, energy, money, and maybe even your feelings.
Still, at the end YOU are left with YOU and YOUR KNOWING of what you should do, regardless of anyone else’s feelings or thoughts. No matter how uncomfortable it may feel at the moment to MAKE A DECISION, YOU JUST KNOW! No matter how scared and alone you may feel in the process YOU KNOW!
How can you TRUST YOURSELF?
BELIEVING in YOUR TRUTH!
BELIEVING that YOU HAVE THE ANSWERS!
BELIEVING that WHAT YOU THINK and HOW YOU THINK MATTERS!
BELIEVING that YOU HAVE CHOICES!
BELIEVING that YOU WANT MORE!
BELIEVING YOUR PURPOSE!
BELIEVING in YOUR DREAMS!
BELIEVING in YOUR SPIRIT!
BELIEVING in YOUR WHY!
BELIEVING in YOUR HEART!
You always have the answers! No matter how long it takes or how many mistakes you make, DON’T EVER STOP BELIEVING IN YOU!
Living in Silent Drama was comfortable for awhile but not as exciting and fulfilling as it was to discover that she could LIVE and DANCE OUT LOUD instead!
As a coach, Guisela uses her gift of dance to help women entrepreneurs trust themselves to LIVE and DANCE OUT LOUD and TO THEIR OWN RHYTHM!